The tragic death of Princess Diana on August 31, 1997, left a profound impact on the British royal family, particularly on her ex-husband, King Charles. At the time, Diana was 36 years old, and her death occurred while she was being chased by paparazzi in Paris. Alongside her in the fatal car crash were her companion, Dodi Fayed, and their chauffeur, Henri Paul. According to Christopher Andersen, author of *The Day Diana Died*, Charles was devastated when he learned of Diana's death. Eyewitnesses described his reaction as one of intense anguish, with Andersen recounting how Charles "howled like a wounded animal" upon receiving the news.
Despite their tumultuous marriage, Charles was deeply affected by Diana's passing. Andersen notes that Charles, who rushed to Paris to bring Diana's body back to England, was visibly shaken when he first saw her lifeless body. The grief was compounded by the realization that the mother of his two sons, and one of the most beloved figures in the world, was gone. This reaction surprised many, considering the public battles that had marked their relationship. Yet, Andersen suggests that Charles' grief was perhaps even more profound than he anticipated, as he grappled with the finality of Diana's death.
In the months leading up to her death, the couple had reportedly made peace with each other for the sake of their sons, Prince William and Prince Harry. According to Andersen, they had developed a warm friendship, with Diana admitting a grudging admiration for the love Charles had for Camilla Parker Bowles. This reconciliation was evident in their correspondence, with Charles writing affectionate notes to Diana, one of which she never received. Behind the scenes, however, Charles faced the monumental task of ensuring that Diana received the funeral she deserved, battling resistance from within the royal establishment.
Diana's death left a lasting shadow over Charles' life and his relationship with Camilla, who became the target of public outrage and death threats. Camilla was forced into hiding as the world mourned Diana, while Charles maintained a stoic public front, adhering to the traditional "stiff upper lip" approach. This period was particularly hard on their sons, William and Harry, who were made to walk behind their mother's coffin in a highly publicized and emotionally charged funeral procession. The lingering grief from this event has continued to affect both princes, who, according to Andersen, have never fully come to terms with their mother's death.
The memory of Diana continued to haunt Charles long after her passing. The public's enduring affection for Diana made it difficult for Charles to move on, and it took eight years before he could convince Queen Elizabeth II to allow him to marry Camilla. Even then, Camilla was initially denied the title of queen, a promise Charles later broke when she was crowned alongside him in May 2023. Andersen suggests that Diana's legacy has been a constant presence in Charles' life, influencing public perception and his own reflections as he now battles an undisclosed illness.
As King Charles navigates his later years, the memory of Diana remains a powerful force in his life. Andersen believes that Charles is still "shadowboxing with the ghost of Diana," a larger-than-life figure whose influence has only grown since her death. This ongoing struggle reflects the complex and often painful history between Charles and Diana, a relationship that has left an indelible mark on the British monarchy and continues to resonate with the public.